15 December 2000
An article that was among my emails. A good, motivating read.
Choose Attitude!
While I was out training last week with the famous Surfers Paradise
Triathlon Club lead by the great Jenny Alcorn (World Champion
Duathlete 1992), the thought came to me to write this article on an
issue that may ruffle some feathers amongst our readers!
As an age group athlete (and my age group just went up!), and
someone who is now reasonably content to train for fun and fitness
with a more mature outlook on sport
(still competitive but not compulsive, wise enough to know when to
stop, when to rest and when to sleep in - all the things that I did
not do in my sporting infancy), I have observed attitude in athletes.
Attitude is that steely determination, that terrier quality, the
tenacity to continue through think and thin which sets some athletes
apart from others.
I have also observed the athlete who cuts corners, takes the short
route, needs constant pushing from the coach or others, complains all
the time, or always has an excuse for the underperformance. I have
seen some of the most gifted athletes very short on attitude. They
never make it very far in their sport.
Some of the best athletes have fewer gifts and more attitude. It is
my belief that even if you are the most gifted athlete in the world,
without attitude, your gift will amount to very little.
The big question then becomes, how do we get attitude if we do not
have it? First, we have to want to get an attitude - badly - enough
to upset a few of your friends and family, who will be disturbed by
the change in you. Then you have to get out of bed, make your bed,
clean up your life, do what you say you will do, and drop all words
and thoughts of can't, won't and don't want to from your vocabulary,
and in all areas of your life. Low attitude is a kind of general
malaise - it spreads through us like a cancer to our home, work,
thoughts about ourselves, and our sporting activities.
One of the biggest myths espoused today is life should be this
wonderful comfortable place where everything is perfect and we never
have to do anything that makes us feel uncomfortable, or that we do
not like. I have noticed this is my 10-year-old daughter. Our greatest
growth often comes from the areas that we are most uncomfortable in. I
contend, why not embrace the discomfort, because if we try to avoid
it, one way or another, it will come to us. (Have you noticed this?
Life happens.)
People who achieve great things are renowned for having given up
much on their path to greatness. Susie O'Neill and other professional
swimmers (to name a specific group), have given up sleeping in, going
out late (past 8 p.m.), eating whatever they like, and partying with
friends for years and years. Growing strong muscles requires working
hard weights - and that hurts! There are no short cuts. Attitude
means that you will push through the training threshold, you will do
the last set, you will choose to eat less junk food and get to bed
early.
Choose attitude, lots of it and be proud of it. Yes, it will get up
someone's nose. Not everyone will like you for it. What really matters
is that you like you for it, and like who you become and what you do
because of it. This is attitude for your life versus attitude just
because.
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